Live Webinar with Steve Bollman

Live Stream


Steve Bollman will take a look to the future both for the Church and TMIY/Paradisus Dei. He foresees many changes … for which God has providentially prepared us.  The talk will last approximately 30 minutes followed by a live Q&A.  Thank you for the incredible support amidst the COVID-19 pandemic.

A Look to the Future
Wednesday May 13th @ 7:00am CDT



Live Webinar Recordings from April can be found below.

  1. A Spiritual Perspective on the COVID-19 Pandemic
  2. Finding God when the Church Doors are Close

Virtual TMIY Process

Process Overview – For Core Teams

This video explains one process for how TMIY classes can continue in a virtual format. It is for Core Team Members. They may choose to share it with Small Group Leaders.


How to Use Zoom – For Small Group Leaders

This video explains only the Small Group Leader role within the large process, explained in the first video. Designed specifically for Small Group Leaders.


How it will Work – For Participants

This video explains to participants how this Virtual TMIY Process will work from their point of view. It does not go into any of the details outlined in the two videos above because participants do not need to know those.

TMIY Set to Continue with Online Small Groups

Live Stream – Recorded on Thursday, March 19th at 8pm.
For All TMIY Members

We need spiritual nourishment now more than ever: “Man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that falls from the mouth of God” (Matthew 4:4).

As such, Paradisus Dei is making plans to:

    1. Allow you to attend TMIY and meet with your small groups online.
    2. Provide special programming during Holy Week to help provide the spiritual support you need during these days.

Resources spoken about during the Live Webinar:

  1. Click Here to Sign Up for the Perpetual Rosary
  2. Click Here to be see a Recommended Reading List
  3. Click Here for Online Donations 
  4. Click Here for Paradisus Dei Prayer Handbook

Learn More:

Click Here to Learn More About the Virtual TMIY Process

How to Host TMIY During the Coronavirus

Live Stream – Recorded on Thursday, March 19th at 6am
For Core Team Members and Small Group Leaders

To continue to serve our men, Paradisus Dei has developed a technological option to conduct TMIY sessions “virtually.” Obviously, this can never fully replace in-person meetings, but it can provide the spiritual sustenance needed when we don’t have other options.  This session will be recorded for playback.


Resources spoken about during the Live Webinar:
  1. Click Here to Sign Up for the Perpetual Rosary
  2. Click Here to be see a Recommended Reading List
  3. Click Here for Online Donations 
  4. Paradisus Dei Prayer Handbook

Learn More:

Click Here to Learn More About the Virtual TMIY Process

2020 – TMIY Man of the Year

Meet our 2020 Man of the Year – Kevin Gibbs!  Fittingly, we call this the St. Joseph Award.

Kevin leads his local core team in Ottawa, was instrumental in helping launch the first 1st annual St. Joseph’s Oratory Pilgrimage to Montreal, and is currently a volunteer on the TMIY Mission Team.  He is personally reaching out to over 30 parishes to tell them them about TMIY!


“A man with a wounded heart can help a man with a wounded mind.” – Kevin Gibbs


“No matter where you are in your journey, how troublesome your early years have been, how deep the wounds are, how long you have struggled, how many times you have failed, how many times you have slid back into sin, what struggles you have gone through or are going through right now…the Lord knows everything about you and He loves you more than you can imagine.  He wants to meet you right where you are…right here …right now… and take you further!” – Kevin Gibbs

Pilgrimage Into the Heart of St. Joseph

St. Joseph is the hidden, silent, yet massive spiritual force behind everything we do in TMIY! The greatest fruit of TMIY would be that more and more men become like St. Joseph. I would like to invite you to an incredible spiritual experience: Join me, Fr. Peter Towsley and 30 TMIY men to the largest shrine in the world dedicated to St. Joseph! Together, we will journey into the heart of this great Saint. Details follow.

Cost $299 – Includes lodging, five meals, three private tours, and metro passes. Travel to and from the retreat site not included.  For pilgrims who wish to arrive a day early, add a Thursday night stay to your registration for an extra $100.  Thursday pilgrims will enjoy an unforgettable light show within Notre Dame Montreal as well as a visit to see St. Kateri on Friday morning.

Lodging at John XXIII Pavilion Hotel – Just steps away from the Oratory, this quaint retreat center in the heart of downtown Montreal is highly sought after by pilgrims and will make the perfect home base for this event. The entire building is ours for the weekend.


Register Here for September 2020


Yours in Christ,
Mark Hartfiel
Vice-President, Paradisus Dei







An All-New TMIY is Here!

It is unlike anything we have

ever done before!

Three brand new years!  New speakers, new topics, new approach!

These new years brings together 21 dynamic speakers from a range of backgrounds to the TMIY stage to present The Vision of Man Fully Alive , The Fight of Faith and All Things New. Experience a change of pace and many engaging personalities within the same great format. Now is the perfect time to join or re-join TMIY!

For more information, contact us at

An Evening in Paradise

January 31, 2020
6:00 P.M. to 11:00 P.M. (US/Central)

St. Mary’s Seminary
9845 Memorial Drive
Houston, TX 77024

Thank you to our sponsors

Paradisus Dei is so grateful for the Corporate Sponsors for our 2020 Gala.
We encourage our network of Catholic families and TMIY men around the globe to think of these companies first when your are considering purchases.





The Door: The Power of Presence

Paradisus Dei would like to share a brand-new video project with you.  Reactions to initial viewings have been humbling:

“WOW WOW WOW! Gave me chills, moved me to tears,
and inspired me to be a better man.”

“When can we share this??”

“You need to get this video out…to everybody!”

We invite you to take a look at The Door. Feel free to share it. Send it to every good man you know and include a personal message. Post it on social media. Help empower change and transform families.

Paradisus Dei Launches a New TMIY App

Paradisus Dei, the creators of the successful That Man is You! men’ program, is reaching the completion of a critical update to their digital infrastructure. This update includes a recently released online Class Management and Communications software, now with integrated streaming video capability. The new TMIY app, also fully integrated, is the last part of this critical update.

Because one of the many exciting aspects of the TMIY experience is the ability for men to view the session content, whether as a means to reinforce/continue their learning or watch missed sessions, the TMIY App has been completely re-developed from the ground-up. Video access is now simpler than ever through the TMIY app, which is provided at no cost to TMIY participants. The app runs natively on Apple or Android devices. These updates result in a much-improved and simpler user experience.

Improvements in this version include:

  • a simpler navigation interface
  • full screen video and slide viewing
  • automatic updates deliver the most current videos and slides
  • donation button makes giving easy
  • full integration with the TMIY online class management system

The last bullet above means that whenever a user updates their account in their new TMIY app, their class information will be automatically updated as well. Core Team Leaders will be able to in contact with class participants who move, change email addresses or phone numbers. The ease of video access also makes it convenient for participants to stay current with their class when they miss a session.

The new TMIY app is available for download from the App Store for iOS devices or Google Play for Android devices. If you already have the TMIY app, this will appear as an update in your app store.

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